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May 19, 2005
| Have you noticed that feminist
Naomi Wolf is taking a more traditional
turn of late? In her new book, The
Treehouse, Wolf attributes her
mother and father's successful marriage
to their old-fashioned tactics:
"He courts her every day, and
she admires him every day; it may
be old-fashioned, but it works.
. . . My father decided that my
mother was going to be eternally
beautiful, and he told her so."
Now, is this the same Naomi Wolf
who in 1997, wanted to liberate
"the shadow slut who walks
alongside us"? Since then,
her views seem to have evolved in
a very different direction. In October
2003, Wolf penned an interesting
article for New York magazine
asking men to "turn off the
." As she explained:
I am
not advocating a return to the
days of hiding female sexuality,
but I am noting that the power
and charge of sex are maintained
when there is some sacredness
to it, when it is not on tap all
the time. In many more traditional
cultures, it is not prudery that
leads them to discourage men from
looking at ography. It is,
rather, because these cultures
understand male sexuality and
what it takes to keep men and
women turned on to one another
over time—to help men, in particular,
to, as the Old Testament puts
it, "rejoice with the wife
of thy youth; let her breasts
satisfy thee at all times."
These cultures urge men not to
look at because they know
that a powerful erotic bond between
parents is a key element of a
strong family.
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